Monday, December 14, 2009
Balance
I've been thinking a lot lately about balance. Struggling with it, I should say. I'm wondering how other people create balance in their lives, especially those people who work from home - whether that is a home based business such as artists, or those whose chosen career is homemaking. There are so many things that need done every day, and so many things we want to do; how do we manage it all? I know I don't manage.
I tend to focus in on one thing at a time, whether that be making art, cooking, keeping the house clean, or trying to get all my holiday gifts made. And I'm not talking about multi-tasking. It's like I have tunnel vision; the one thing I'm focused on is all I can do; I have trouble dividing my time amongst the different concerns. I have trouble even among the different aspects of my creative life. I need to be actually creating art; I need to be listing items on my Etsy store; I need to be marketing that store, and I need to be blogging daily. Any one of those things will consume me to the point where I can't seem to get to the others or can't even think about them. Yet, those are all tasks that are inter-related and I need to balance them.
Am I even making sense? I feel like I'm rambling. So add in the need to make menu plans, clean the house, maybe put up some holiday decorations, and finish my gift giving list - how do you do it? I read your blogs, you women out there who have jobs and make art and decorate your homes and have social lives to boot. Tell me your secrets.



#1 doing it all is a myth
ReplyDelete#2 prioritize and make lists
#3 make time to appreciate the mundane
#4 move, rest, eat well everyday
#5 figure out what you value most and put your energies there
just a few ideas from a woman who at 53, is still a work in progress!
I'm going to print out your rules Karen and post them where I can see them!
ReplyDeleteI find i get as much done, maybe more, when working, although less time for fun. Of course working at home helps alot with that...All i really want is to be living your life right now. That is what i am really good at. I pray to return to being a homemaker. xo
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